I've been always wanted to do a post on why I'm so crazily in love with my hubby. Sometimes I'm too lazy to write a post...Whenever I'm in the mood to start a post he just pissed me off and I'm totally not in the mood to do the post...

We are not always loving & sweet, we do scream at each other and showing "black" face when we don't agree on some issues...Did i ever mention that I HATE HIS "BLACK" FACE???I have to admit that I've ever googled "How to make my husband the sweetest guy on earth?" & "Why is my husband so irritating?" "How to kill my husband?"

He is stubborn, irritating, bad tempered & sulky...but he is my stubborn, irritating, bad tempered & sulky hubby & no one can imagine the love I have for him...Alvin Chua is the only perfect guy for me, my best friend that talks to me all the times, my brother who will take good care of me no matter what, my ideal role model father of our future children, my husband that love me unconditionally & the only guy take makes me falling in love over & over again.

The reasons for me to be so crazy in love with him:

1. I trust him..completely...peeps always say never too trust a guy cos when the betrayal comes in, I'll be super hurt...but I know he can't bear to hurt me as I'm always his priority in life.

2. My hubby is a very smart guy...(Clever!!!) He always do well in almost everything he's doing...He's taking his ATPL, and I'm so sure that he can do his best in it...

3. Peoples who doesn't know my hubby well enough, will find him a little too quiet...this make him a very charming guy..And he is a very good listener..

4. He is a funny..His jokes can always make me go LOL at home, in the car, just anywhere with him..

5. Hardworking...I always have a thing with hardworking guys..How can a girl depend on a guy that is always lazing around..He work hard so that he can provide me with a better lifestyle...
"我要给你好日子。"that's what he always tell me.

6. We are very same in some aspects..... We have the same vision on our family, relationship, future...

7. We are different enough to have our small argument & fights to make our life more "interesting"... Things would be damn boring if you are always facing someone who agrees with everything you say/do...

8. He love me as much as i love him... He cleans away the tears on my face with his ugly thumbs..He makes me laugh when he knows that I'm sad...He eats the food that i can't finish..He hug me to sleep so that I can bury my face in his chest/armpit..

With the above reason that can go on & on & on...I know I want to spend the rest of my life with the guy that constantly shower me with his unconditional love...

A father's message from beyond the grave

A FATHER'S RULES FOR FINDING FULFILLMENT

Be courteous, be punctual, always say please and thank you, and be sure to hold your knife and fork properly. Others take their cue on how to treat you from your manners.

Be kind, considerate and compassionate when others are in trouble, even if you have problems of your own. Others will admire your selflessness and will help you in due course.

Show moral courage. Do what is right, even if that makes you unpopular. I always thought it important to be able to look at myself in the shaving mirror every morning and not feel guilt or remorse. I depart this world with a pretty clear conscience.

Show humility. Stand your ground but pause to reflect on what the other side are saying, and back off when you know you are wrong. Never worry about losing face. That only happens when you are pig-headed.
Learn from your mistakes. You will make plenty so use them as a learning tool. If you keep making the same mistake or run into a problem, you’re doing something wrong.

Avoid disparaging someone to a third party; it is only you who will look bad. If you have a problem with someone, tell them face to face.

Hold fire! If someone crosses you, don’t react immediately. Once you say something it can never be taken back, and most people deserve a second chance.

Have fun. If this involves taking risks, so be it. If you get caught, hold your hands up.

Give to charity and help those who are less fortunate than yourselves: it’s easy and so rewarding.

Always look on the upside! The glass is half full, never half empty. Every adversity has a silver lining if you seek it out.

Make it your instinct always to say ‘yes’. Look for reasons to do something, not reasons to say no. Your friends will cherish you for that.

Be canny: you will get more of what you want if you can give someone more of what they desire. Compromise can be king.

Always accept a party invitation. You may not want to go, but they want you there. Show them courtesy and respect.

Never ever let a friend down. I would bury bodies for my friends, if they asked me to . . . which is why I have chosen them carefully.

Always tip for good service. It shows respect. But never reward poor service. Poor service is insulting.

Always treat those you meet as your social equal, whether they are above or below your station in life. For those above you, show due deference, but don’t be a sycophant.

Always respect age, as age equals wisdom.

Be prepared to put the interests of your sibling first.

Be proud of who you are and where you come from, but open your mind to other cultures and languages. When you begin to travel (as I hope you will), you’ll learn that your place in the world is both vital and insignificant. Don’t get too big for your breeches.

Be ambitious, but not nakedly so. Be prepared to back your assertions with craftsmanship and hard work.

Live every day to its full: do something that makes you smile or laugh, and avoid procrastination.

Give of your best at school. Some teachers forget that pupils need incentives. So if your teacher doesn’t give you one, devise your own.

Always pay the most you can afford. Never skimp on hotels, clothing, shoes, make-up or jewellery. But always look for a deal. You get what you pay for.

Never give up! My two little soldiers have no dad, but you are brave, big-hearted, fit and strong. You are also loved by an immensely kind and supportive team of family and friends. You make your own good fortune, my children, so battle on.

Never feel sorry for yourself, or at least don’t do it for long. Crying doesn’t make things better.

Look after your body and it will look after you.

Learn a language, or at least try. Never engage a person abroad in conversation without first greeting them in their own language; by all means ask if they speak English!

And finally, cherish your mother, and take very good care of her.

I love you both with all my heart.
Daddy

Hubby is now training to be a SQ Pilot...

So the training program will be:
- 3weeks of OBS
- half a year in Seletar
- 1year in Perth
- come back SG for a couple mths
- 3mths in Brisbane
- wait for his conversion for 777

then he will start his career as a 2nd Officer Pilot...

All these is going to take him (us) 2&half years...(!!!)

2&half years is not too long yet not too short span of time...Spending 1 full year without each other as companion will not be easy...But we are going thru' it together with faith & trust that everything will turn out fine...And right now, I'm already preparing myself to be more independent...Keeping my thoughts busy so that I won't be bothered by the fact that my hubby is not by my side...Cause my hubby need to concentrate on the curriculum planned for him so that he can fulfill his dream of being a responsible pilot...

Personally, I think the 1 year of training in Perth will be really tough for us but we will start to plan some flyover-meet up to maintain our relationship...Tell me that with technologies like "face time", "whatsapp" & "skype", communication is not a problem at all...

And for the 1 year of LDR, I can help up with my brother & "smelly" future sister-in-law wedding preparation... Ohyes, my bro proposed & their big day is on 121212...Finally, my bro is ready to settle down...So I guess the 1 year will be a fast one & we are hoping that hubby will be back to attend their wedding..

My Smelly Qingyi & Zhengqun

Seriously, I really very proud of my Hubby, he is really so amazing till I don't know why he's with me. I wonder if I am good enough for him...But I'm going to do all I can to make him the happiest man living on earth till then I think I'm already everything I want to be in this life...

So this 2&half years, all i can do is be supportive & independent so that he can concentrate achieving all the things he need to do and lessen his worries for me...

We believe with faith & trust that
"Love never fails",
we will be holding hands till old age...

F.A.M.I.L.Y.

Pencil: I'm sorry...
Eraser: For what? You didn't do anything wrong.
Pencil: I'm sorry cos you get hurt bcos of me. Whenever I made a mistake, you're always there to erase it. But as you make my mistakes vanish, you lose a part of yourself. You get smaller and smaller each time.
Eraser: That's true. But I don't really mind. You see, I was made to do this. I was made to help you whenever you do something wrong. Even though one day, I know I'll be gone and you'll replace me with a new one, I'm actually happy with my job. So please, stop worrying. I hate seeing you sad. :)

I found this conversation between the pencil and the eraser very inspirational. Parents are like the eraser whereas their children are the pencil. They're always there for their children, cleaning up their mistakes. Sometimes along the way... they get hurt, and become smaller (older, and eventually pass on). Though their children will eventually find someone new (spouse), but parents are still happy with what they do for their children, and will always hate seeing their precious ones worrying, or sad.

"All my life, I've been the pencil.. And it pains me to see the eraser that is my parents getting smaller and smaller each day. For I know that one day, all that I'm left with would be eraser shavings and memories of what I used to have..."

This is to all the parents out there...

F ather
A nd
M other
I (Yaya & Qun)
L ove
Y ou

I'd like to build the world a home
And furnish it with love
Grow apple trees and honey bees
And snow-white turtle doves

Chorus:
I'd like to teach the world to sing
In perfect harmony
I'd like to hold it in my arms
And keep it company
(That's the song I hear)
I'd like to see the world for once
(Let the world sing today)
All standing hand in hand
And hear them echo through the hills
For peace throughout the land
That's the song I hear
(That's the song I hear)
Let the world sing today
(Let the whole wide world keep singing)
A song of peace that echoes on
And never goes away

Put your hand in my hand
Let's begin today
Put your hand in my hand
Help me find a way

When I was small, and Christmas trees were tall,
we used to love while others used to play.
Don't ask me why, but time has passed us by,
someone else moved in from far away.

Now we are tall, and Christmas trees are small,
and you don't ask the time of day.
But you and I, our love will never die,
but guess we'll cry come first of May.

The apple tree that grew for you and me,
I watched the apples falling one by one.
And I recall the moment of them all,
the day I kissed your cheek and you were gone.

Now we are tall, and Christmas trees are small,
and you don't ask the time of day.
But you and I, our love will never die,
but guess we'll cry come first of May.

When I was small, and Christmas trees were tall,
do do do do do do do do do...
Don't ask me why, but time has passed us by,
someone else moved in from far away.

Read

First Of May Lyrics

here.

Take 5...and think about it...

Read this article by an American stand-up comedian from Twinkle's recent entry...and want to share this and note the below content...


The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways , but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.
We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.

We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years. We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things.

We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete...

Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.

Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.

Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.

Remember, to say, 'I love you' to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.

Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away. -George Denis Patrick Carlin (May 12, 1937 – June 22, 2008)