.....................1] start with a big bowl of TRUST!!!
..........2] pour in a cupful of PATIENCE!!!
.....................3] add a dash of FORGIVENESS!!!
........4] stir in a spoonful of KINDNESS!!!
.................5] sprinkle a handful of ENCOURAGEMENT!!!
..6] sweeten with plenty of COUPLE TIME!!!
..................7] throw in some slices of APPRECIATION!!!
..........8] spice it up with lots of SURPRISES!!!
...9] top it all with a generous serving of PASSION!!!
DA-Dah~~~ And a Happy Marriage is right beside you...Stepping into the stage of being a man's wife, it's a lot more than what a girlfriend need to do. The above list is really what you need to practice on a daily basis. You see, knowing it is 1 thing and doing it is totally a different issue.
One important thing is COMMUNICATION, and i don't mean the lady doing the talking till she hit her daily 50000 - 80000 words quota. Although generally the girls tend to talk more than the guys. For Mr & Mrs Chua, communication is sharing our dreams, and also tally our future we want to see and strike a balance from there. I have a very logical hubby and I'm a "fairy-tales -do-exist" wife, add us together there's *LOGICAL FAIRY TALE*..hehehe~~~ Talking 'bout our daily activity over dinner(sounds boring huh?), but making the effort to know what's going on his side will let you understand his reason of being so moody & touchy, likewise for him. It will reduce the quarrel statistic.
Another big word in relationship will be EXPECTATION. Normally... ...
we will hear complains like:
Example: Guys, don't expect us to be not naggy... hahahaha!!!
One important thing is COMMUNICATION, and i don't mean the lady doing the talking till she hit her daily 50000 - 80000 words quota. Although generally the girls tend to talk more than the guys. For Mr & Mrs Chua, communication is sharing our dreams, and also tally our future we want to see and strike a balance from there. I have a very logical hubby and I'm a "fairy-tales -do-exist" wife, add us together there's *LOGICAL FAIRY TALE*..hehehe~~~ Talking 'bout our daily activity over dinner(sounds boring huh?), but making the effort to know what's going on his side will let you understand his reason of being so moody & touchy, likewise for him. It will reduce the quarrel statistic.
Another big word in relationship will be EXPECTATION. Normally... ...
we will hear complains like:
- The sobbing lady continued her sentence with a soft voice, "I didn't expect him to be so unromantic/unsentimental..."
- "Oh man, I didn't expect that woman at home is so demanding." said that agitated guy to his group of friends.
Example: Guys, don't expect us to be not naggy... hahahaha!!!
