I've been always wanted to do a post on why I'm so crazily in love with my hubby. Sometimes I'm too lazy to write a post...Whenever I'm in the mood to start a post he just pissed me off and I'm totally not in the mood to do the post...

We are not always loving & sweet, we do scream at each other and showing "black" face when we don't agree on some issues...Did i ever mention that I HATE HIS "BLACK" FACE???I have to admit that I've ever googled "How to make my husband the sweetest guy on earth?" & "Why is my husband so irritating?" "How to kill my husband?"

He is stubborn, irritating, bad tempered & sulky...but he is my stubborn, irritating, bad tempered & sulky hubby & no one can imagine the love I have for him...Alvin Chua is the only perfect guy for me, my best friend that talks to me all the times, my brother who will take good care of me no matter what, my ideal role model father of our future children, my husband that love me unconditionally & the only guy take makes me falling in love over & over again.

The reasons for me to be so crazy in love with him:

1. I trust him..completely...peeps always say never too trust a guy cos when the betrayal comes in, I'll be super hurt...but I know he can't bear to hurt me as I'm always his priority in life.

2. My hubby is a very smart guy...(Clever!!!) He always do well in almost everything he's doing...He's taking his ATPL, and I'm so sure that he can do his best in it...

3. Peoples who doesn't know my hubby well enough, will find him a little too quiet...this make him a very charming guy..And he is a very good listener..

4. He is a funny..His jokes can always make me go LOL at home, in the car, just anywhere with him..

5. Hardworking...I always have a thing with hardworking guys..How can a girl depend on a guy that is always lazing around..He work hard so that he can provide me with a better lifestyle...
"我要给你好日子。"that's what he always tell me.

6. We are very same in some aspects..... We have the same vision on our family, relationship, future...

7. We are different enough to have our small argument & fights to make our life more "interesting"... Things would be damn boring if you are always facing someone who agrees with everything you say/do...

8. He love me as much as i love him... He cleans away the tears on my face with his ugly thumbs..He makes me laugh when he knows that I'm sad...He eats the food that i can't finish..He hug me to sleep so that I can bury my face in his chest/armpit..

With the above reason that can go on & on & on...I know I want to spend the rest of my life with the guy that constantly shower me with his unconditional love...

A father's message from beyond the grave

A FATHER'S RULES FOR FINDING FULFILLMENT

Be courteous, be punctual, always say please and thank you, and be sure to hold your knife and fork properly. Others take their cue on how to treat you from your manners.

Be kind, considerate and compassionate when others are in trouble, even if you have problems of your own. Others will admire your selflessness and will help you in due course.

Show moral courage. Do what is right, even if that makes you unpopular. I always thought it important to be able to look at myself in the shaving mirror every morning and not feel guilt or remorse. I depart this world with a pretty clear conscience.

Show humility. Stand your ground but pause to reflect on what the other side are saying, and back off when you know you are wrong. Never worry about losing face. That only happens when you are pig-headed.
Learn from your mistakes. You will make plenty so use them as a learning tool. If you keep making the same mistake or run into a problem, you’re doing something wrong.

Avoid disparaging someone to a third party; it is only you who will look bad. If you have a problem with someone, tell them face to face.

Hold fire! If someone crosses you, don’t react immediately. Once you say something it can never be taken back, and most people deserve a second chance.

Have fun. If this involves taking risks, so be it. If you get caught, hold your hands up.

Give to charity and help those who are less fortunate than yourselves: it’s easy and so rewarding.

Always look on the upside! The glass is half full, never half empty. Every adversity has a silver lining if you seek it out.

Make it your instinct always to say ‘yes’. Look for reasons to do something, not reasons to say no. Your friends will cherish you for that.

Be canny: you will get more of what you want if you can give someone more of what they desire. Compromise can be king.

Always accept a party invitation. You may not want to go, but they want you there. Show them courtesy and respect.

Never ever let a friend down. I would bury bodies for my friends, if they asked me to . . . which is why I have chosen them carefully.

Always tip for good service. It shows respect. But never reward poor service. Poor service is insulting.

Always treat those you meet as your social equal, whether they are above or below your station in life. For those above you, show due deference, but don’t be a sycophant.

Always respect age, as age equals wisdom.

Be prepared to put the interests of your sibling first.

Be proud of who you are and where you come from, but open your mind to other cultures and languages. When you begin to travel (as I hope you will), you’ll learn that your place in the world is both vital and insignificant. Don’t get too big for your breeches.

Be ambitious, but not nakedly so. Be prepared to back your assertions with craftsmanship and hard work.

Live every day to its full: do something that makes you smile or laugh, and avoid procrastination.

Give of your best at school. Some teachers forget that pupils need incentives. So if your teacher doesn’t give you one, devise your own.

Always pay the most you can afford. Never skimp on hotels, clothing, shoes, make-up or jewellery. But always look for a deal. You get what you pay for.

Never give up! My two little soldiers have no dad, but you are brave, big-hearted, fit and strong. You are also loved by an immensely kind and supportive team of family and friends. You make your own good fortune, my children, so battle on.

Never feel sorry for yourself, or at least don’t do it for long. Crying doesn’t make things better.

Look after your body and it will look after you.

Learn a language, or at least try. Never engage a person abroad in conversation without first greeting them in their own language; by all means ask if they speak English!

And finally, cherish your mother, and take very good care of her.

I love you both with all my heart.
Daddy