a few of 2006...

the above pic is so fu*king funny la....

Happy Birthday, ahNAma....

our 2006 birthday

our birthday used to be 1 of the big event of the year...we will always plan our birthday 1 month in advance...

some things change.... .... ....

but the friendship remains the same... =)

abit mushy here...

but............

ahNAma, i LOVE U....

Somewhere Out There...

Somewhere out there beneath the pale moonlight
Someone's thinking of me and loving me tonight

Somewhere out there someone's saying a prayer
That we'll find one another in that big somewhere out there

And even though I know how very far apart we are
It helps to think we might be wishing on the same bright star

And when the night wind starts to sing a lonesome lullaby
It helps to think we're sleeping underneath the same big sky

Somewhere out there if love can see us through
Then we'll be together somewhere out there
Out where dreams come true

And even though I know how very far apart we are
It helps to think we might be wishing on the same bright star

And when the night wind starts to sing a lonesome lullaby
It helps to think we're sleeping underneath the same big sky

Somewhere out there if love can see us through
Then we'll be together somewhere out there
Out where dreams come true

Looking Forward to...........

WELCOME 2 TAIWAN!!!


From 28thMarch09 till 2ndApril09....

Alvin & me are so excited...it's our 1st time there........

We are going away for the longest period as a couple...

I will update more when i come back ok???

and share with all our experiences there...







SAWADEEKUP!!!
Welcome to the City of Smiles!!!












From 4th April 09 till 7th April 09.... .... .... ....
Couples Getaway....
1) Mr & Mrs Foo aka Ya-Foo & Gi-selle-selle
2) Mr & Mrs Tay aka Latte & Mocka
3) Mr & Mrs Chua aka Ka-Chua & YA-Right
so look forward to this trip...
with my these 2 girlies, we can do shopping, massaging, eating, cam-whoring, gossiping
& many more...
as for the guys.... ... waiting & carrying shopping bags, massaging, eating & nothing more...

His Working cum Cooking Wife...

One week ago, i was talking with Gi-selle-selle on MSN...Discussing about being the Perfect Wife...

Her Sentence was something like: You have to learn how to cook,girl...So that next time you can cook for your Hubby ma...Imagine your Hubby feel so tired after work than come home w/o a decent meal on the table...How will he feel??

I told her: I also need to work ma...i'll also feel tired...i also need my rest after work ma...

It set me thinking.. .. ... ..... ........

Today, i've learn to cook his favourite dish...Curry Chicken...It wasnt as difficult as i thought...

Now, i understand the feeling..
The hugs & kisses from him when he saw the Curry...The nods & smiles after he taste the Curry...When he finish eating the Curry,the burps & the "thank you,sweetie"...

He appreciate me!!! =)

Now i totally know that he's proud of me..Thanks gi-selle-selle....

Mid-Twenties Crisis...

Five years ago, i was happy.. Happy with ahNAma that we were entering the Miss Twenty Club.. Finally going to be a real Adult soon...
Things were much simple and mayb that's the reason why we were happy...there was really nothing for us to worry about...Drink, Club, Shopping bla bla bla...
Club Hopping from Madam Wong, Devils' Bar, ChinaBlack, Zouk, Dbl O.... ... .....
Staying over at each other place and chit chat all the way till morning...
Taking Neo-Prints with those "KAWAII" poses!!! hahahahahahahaha!!!!

NOW.... Last Sunday, i was telling VImama..."Damn Shit, my B'day is just 12days away..." My life now is really very different from 5 years ago...*sob* There's so much more things to worry about...Marriage Preparation next will be our House Installment & Renovation then mayb Babies Planning...
Ask me if I'm Happy now???
It's a totally different Happiness..可能是为了将来的幸福，所以我觉得我是开心的！
I'm glad that with the all changes in life for the past 5years...I still have my 2 besties VImama & ahNAma...plus 2 more girlies that matters to me - juju mocka & gi-selle-selle...Loving Hubby...a always happy family...healthy granny...a stable job!!!
what more can i ask for??? =)

5 years later...i wish that:
- Hubby & Me will still be happy & loving together with our healthy children...
- Happy & Healthy Family...
- My Granny to be Healthy please........
- the friendship i have with VImama & ahNAma stay strong always...
- the friendship with juju mocka & gi-selle-selle will move on to the next level...
- still need a stable job...
MRS-THIRTIES-CLUB!!!

IT Fair...

I WANT TO GO TO THE IT FAIR MA!!!

I WANT TO SEE SOME SLR CAMERA MA!!!

HUMP! HUMP!! HUMP!!!

rain rain please go away...

I really don't like raining day...There's really nothing much we can do at home...

Flying Kite....

It's Friday Night...nope...suppose to be Saturday "AM" to be exact...

Here i am, home alone...surfing the net..(as usual Face-Booking)

Compared to some of the mid-twenties adults, i really have to admit that "Yes!!!my life is BORING!!!" Busy working from Mon - Fri...Looking at my collicks, planning for their weekend really make me goes "Awwww, how interesting plans they have!!!" I'm also looking forward to weekends but there's really nothing much i can do for my weekends..."Hanging out with friends drinking coffee&tea from 10pm - 2am then head back home to sleep..."--->that's what we do on weekends...

Staying home indeed help Alvin & me to save some money for the preparation for all our future plans like Wedding Customary Dinner, Love Nest, Babies and our once-a-while holiday getaway!!Looking at the way Alvin & i spend is really "AI-YO!!! *shake head*"
Now...i've learn to make do with my lousy nail painting instead of paying for mani & pedi although people who r close to me know that i enjoy all my mani & pedi sessions...
i must learn to resist shopping and even online shopping... =(

"Why make yourself suffer due to all the future planning???"
My answer will be: Our priorities are just different...
From the day, Alvin and me got our Love-Nest...We heard all kinds of feedbacks!!!
Alright,cum on...We are just paying for something we both like...
But thanks to all those feedbacks: We will work on it...

Back to topic, why am i home-alone???or rather room-alone...hahahaha
cos my Mum is in her room watching DVDS..Dad still in the garden trimming his plants and playing with his new pets(BIRD)..Bro & friends playing MJ in the living room!!-->it's 12.30am!

Alvin is out with Daniel Wee & Beng for "Let's Get Together, GUYS!!!"(LGTG) sessions...and i'm not allowed to be there...seriously, i used to thought that it's a bad idea when they don't allowed girls presence...i used to make it big issue with Alvin when he tells me that he's joining them for LGTG...We'll quarrel and fight and in the end, he will still leave me alone and join the guys...

I don't know since when.... ..... ........ ............ I've learned to be more understanding that he needs his own time with his friends too...As his wife, i still cant tied him with a rope and demand him to stay by my side at all times right???

Maintaining a Relationship is the same as the Skills of Flying Kite...
1. If you don't know how to let go, the string will snap...
2. If you don't know how to hold tight, the kite will fly away...
it's a LOSE-LOSE situation...

Why not learn to let it loose abit and have a WIN-WIN situation???
I'm proud to say: I know how to "Fly a Kite"

A Cute Little Girl......

梁文音 - 最幸福的事

你撐著雨傘 接我那次

已經足夠我 記得一輩子

我懂後來你 不是不堅持

愛情本來就 沒萬無一失

淚水離開了 你的手指

那不如讓它 留在這信紙

我想女孩子 最貼心的是

讓愛的人選 結束的方式

我最幸福的事 當過你的天使

趁鼻酸能掩飾 讓我們像當時 擁抱最後一次

最幸福的事 吹蠟燭時你總為我許願的手勢

為摯愛的人 在左邊心口保留位置 是最幸福的事

可惜愛不是 童話故事

不能夠永遠 依賴著王子

再難過其實 隻剩兩個字

我怎麼忍心 為難你解釋

我最幸福的事 當過你的天使

趁鼻酸能掩飾 讓我們像當時 擁抱最後一次

最幸福的事 吹蠟燭時你總為我許願的手勢

為摯愛的人 在左邊心口保留位置 是最幸福的事

那一陣子有你 美得不像現實

多高興每一幕 都微笑著靜止

我最幸福的事 牽著你的日子

一段愛從開始 即使分開我們 都對彼此誠實

最幸福的事 對那片海用力大喊永遠的樣子

想得起那時 那天和你傻笑著認識 是最幸福的事

I was chatting with a lady this morning...She's my co-collick, work with her ever since the 1st day i'm in my present company..let's not mention name and we'll call her Jane...Jane is in her 40s & she's a 100% Hot-mummy...She's always a cheerful lady, always teaching us new knowledge (or maybe not..cos she can be quite blur at times)...although there's age-gap between us but chatting with her is so easy..

Until our last chat of t0day on MSN...

She was mentioning to me about her betraying husband...they have been together for 23 years...(i'm repeating myself 23 years)...all these happen because of a 28 years old girl in Jane's husband's office..

It really got me wondering how can a guy give up the family just because of a girl that is 15 years younger than him...
Is it true that love & don't love is separated by a thin line...?(is either i love U or i don't love U)

Although i can't give Jane the best solution...nor i can tell her what to do at the end of the day...
I'm just her co-collick...but Jane, i can be your most sincere listening ears...

As for me...i believe i can only do my best in my relationship with Alvin... =)

Our Love Nest...

Okay...I'll try to update this blog frequently k?

Well, let's talk about our Love Nest...

Upon receiving the invitation from HDB to go for our selection for Pinnacles @ Duxton...We were so excited when we know that we are getting OUR OWN SPACE...

But looking at the price that HDB is offering, we were STUNNED!!! there was 2nd thoughts bout it...We are afraid that we can't afford it..Scare that those "what if" situations occurs!!!

After some discussions, we were quite sure that we are going for it...
- getting a flat in CBD at the price which is considered cheap...
- the conveniences...
and
bla bla bla...

told a few of our friends...
some of the replies was : WOAH..SI BEI EX LOR...
for those that said that: WHO DOESNT KNOW IT'S EX???

ok...i'll be back for more info on this issues...

im discussing with ju mocka & gis for our BKK plans... =)

Updates on our Big Day

the very 1st step is meeting "THE RIGHT ONE"
Nobody can tell u that are u r with the right partner and YES!!!(fortunately or unfortunately) only u yourself will know the answer...i mean u see, i do have friends telling me "eermmm, i dont noe if he's the one..."friends questioning me " how sure are u that Alvin is the one u will spend the rest of your life with???"

seriously, im not sure how tough will the road ahead be for us but as long as both of us are determine to continue holding hands firmly & keeping each other in our hearts no matter what happen...afterall, Alvin is the 1 i choose to spend the rest of my life with...since we've chosen each other, it's a Commitment for Life...

u see, we cant predict FUTURE...but look at your partner now, can u imagine both of u CREATING your own future???Alvin & me believe in working towards our own future...our own future is determine by us...
"Today seeds will be tomorrow flowers" --> (u dont expect to get roses if u plant sunflower seeds right?)

12th Dec 2009 will be exactly 287days away (as at 8th March 09)

Trust me : WEDDING PREPARATION IS REALLY A TOUGH TASK

i buy things on impulse jus like how i decide to buy my IPod Nano in less than 5minutes...
jus like the tons of clothes tt was in my cupboard either wore once or with the price tag...
and not forget the shoes & heels tt are in the cabinets for years...
ohya, and baby swift was really an impulse decision...Car is really a financial commitment...

Wedding Prep: U want the best...U dont want to make the wrong choice and regret later on...u see, i never like to do many days & nights research before buying anythings...Bcos of our Big Day, i've learn to join forum like SingaporeBride, theKnot, bla bla bla...oso flipping Magazines over & over & over again so that i dont leave out any important information...

I'm really glad that i've
settled my wedding venue (Swissotel the Stamford-Dannis Yeo)
the moment we stepped into the Ballroom, we were like "This is Great!!!" We can imagine ourselves marching in with all guest smiling and clapping the hands for us...It must be the lighting that created a very romantic feel...im not sure if Alvin thinks alike but it certainly gave me the "Beauty & the Beast" 's Ballroom Feel...

settled my Bridal with Whitelink-Agnes
Before i talk about their gowns...i definately must give credit to Agnes..She's the most sincere lady i met after going mayb 10 - 15 bridal shop...she's very friendly and not even 1% pushy...she's willing to share informations with me even before i decided to sign their package..& she's the 1 that told me to discuss & consider bout signing with them...on my second meet up with Agnes, she show me the gowns that they have and their gowns is so so SO "My Type"-princess-ly...they do have alot of different styles of gowns...(ladies & gents, planning for their wedding shld go down to have a look..esp. latte & mocka)

selected my AD Photographer & Videographer with Mojoideas-Jaze Ong
met up with a few photographers saw their works...some of them the photos were good but jus couldnt click with the PG...some of the PG were quite friendly but dont really like their work..i've got to know bout Mojoideas thru surfing the net for AD PG & VG...their name MojoIdeas attracted me...cos i find the word "Mojo" quite funny...that's the reason i clicked on their link...after looking thru their onlines photos, i've decided to give Mr Jaze Ong a call...met up with him and guess wat... ... he's even funnier than the word "Mojo" la...(kidding la) he showed us some of his work...Alvin & me was sure that he's going to be AD PG & VG...we like his piece of work bcos it's natural and there's funny elements in it...as we are both looking for AD PG & VG tt will capture more than jus photos..we wanted them to capture the memories...we believe they r capable of doing that for us...they are very important on the Actual Day...(ladies & gents, planning for their wedding should also take note of this: the Actual will only happen once, do find some1 who u both feel comfortable with..as they are going to take down all the evidence of yr memories so that 10 or even 20 years down the road, u can still look at the photos and laugh about it...)

Phew~i did all these all alone with the kind understanding from Alvin that i can make sole-decision..

with all the preparations done for the big day:
Its the Marriage - Commitment for Life that we are looking forward to...
Wedding is an announcement and a formal channels for families & friends to give their blessings to us..
Therefore, please be present on our Wedding Day to give us your blessings as we move on to our Marriage Life...