the very 1st step is meeting "THE RIGHT ONE"
Nobody can tell u that are u r with the right partner and YES!!!(fortunately or unfortunately) only u yourself will know the answer...i mean u see, i do have friends telling me "eermmm, i dont noe if he's the one..."friends questioning me " how sure are u that Alvin is the one u will spend the rest of your life with???"
seriously, im not sure how tough will the road ahead be for us but as long as both of us are determine to continue holding hands firmly & keeping each other in our hearts no matter what happen...afterall, Alvin is the 1 i choose to spend the rest of my life with...since we've chosen each other, it's a Commitment for Life...
u see, we cant predict FUTURE...but look at your partner now, can u imagine both of u CREATING your own future???Alvin & me believe in working towards our own future...our own future is determine by us...
"Today seeds will be tomorrow flowers" --> (u dont expect to get roses if u plant sunflower seeds right?)
12th Dec 2009 will be exactly 287days away (as at 8th March 09)
Trust me : WEDDING PREPARATION IS REALLY A TOUGH TASK
i buy things on impulse jus like how i decide to buy my IPod Nano in less than 5minutes...
jus like the tons of clothes tt was in my cupboard either wore once or with the price tag...
and not forget the shoes & heels tt are in the cabinets for years...
ohya, and baby swift was really an impulse decision...Car is really a financial commitment...
Wedding Prep: U want the best...U dont want to make the wrong choice and regret later on...u see, i never like to do many days & nights research before buying anythings...Bcos of our Big Day, i've learn to join forum like SingaporeBride, theKnot, bla bla bla...oso flipping Magazines over & over & over again so that i dont leave out any important information...
I'm really glad that i've
settled my wedding venue (Swissotel the Stamford-Dannis Yeo)
the moment we stepped into the Ballroom, we were like "This is Great!!!" We can imagine ourselves marching in with all guest smiling and clapping the hands for us...It must be the lighting that created a very romantic feel...im not sure if Alvin thinks alike but it certainly gave me the "Beauty & the Beast" 's Ballroom Feel...
settled my Bridal with Whitelink-Agnes
Before i talk about their gowns...i definately must give credit to Agnes..She's the most sincere lady i met after going mayb 10 - 15 bridal shop...she's very friendly and not even 1% pushy...she's willing to share informations with me even before i decided to sign their package..& she's the 1 that told me to discuss & consider bout signing with them...on my second meet up with Agnes, she show me the gowns that they have and their gowns is so so SO "My Type"-princess-ly...they do have alot of different styles of gowns...(ladies & gents, planning for their wedding shld go down to have a look..esp. latte & mocka)
selected my AD Photographer & Videographer with Mojoideas-Jaze Ong
met up with a few photographers saw their works...some of them the photos were good but jus couldnt click with the PG...some of the PG were quite friendly but dont really like their work..i've got to know bout Mojoideas thru surfing the net for AD PG & VG...their name MojoIdeas attracted me...cos i find the word "Mojo" quite funny...that's the reason i clicked on their link...after looking thru their onlines photos, i've decided to give Mr Jaze Ong a call...met up with him and guess wat... ... he's even funnier than the word "Mojo" la...(kidding la) he showed us some of his work...Alvin & me was sure that he's going to be AD PG & VG...we like his piece of work bcos it's natural and there's funny elements in it...as we are both looking for AD PG & VG tt will capture more than jus photos..we wanted them to capture the memories...we believe they r capable of doing that for us...they are very important on the Actual Day...(ladies & gents, planning for their wedding should also take note of this: the Actual will only happen once, do find some1 who u both feel comfortable with..as they are going to take down all the evidence of yr memories so that 10 or even 20 years down the road, u can still look at the photos and laugh about it...)
Phew~i did all these all alone with the kind understanding from Alvin that i can make sole-decision..
with all the preparations done for the big day:
Its the Marriage - Commitment for Life that we are looking forward to...
Wedding is an announcement and a formal channels for families & friends to give their blessings to us..
Therefore, please be present on our Wedding Day to give us your blessings as we move on to our Marriage Life...
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